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Wedding bells for Bert and Ernie?

Nothing should surprise me anymore, but when I saw a petition calling for Bert and Ernie to get married on Sesame Street, I took note. First of all, I had no idea that Bert and Ernie were a gay couple. Maybe I missed something. I grew up watching them on Sesame Street and don’t recall anything that could hint that they were a couple. I think they sleep in separate beds, too. Plus, they are puppets. Do puppets even have a sexual orientation?

I thought that maybe gay rights activists were acting out because of all the recent anti-gay news like Michele Bachman’s ‘pray away the gay’ class. Snicker. I find this even more ridiculous than a gay wedding on Sesame Street, but that’s another blog post.

Personally, I have no problem with gay people and it wouldn’t bother me if Bert and Ernie were gay or if they decided to get married. However, is this the proper venue to host a gay wedding? I’m not even sure the kids watching Sesame Street would understand the issue of gays and same-sex marriage.

What I do know is that there are certain people that would freak out if Sesame Street decided to air a same-sex wedding on a kid’s program. Do we really need to add more fuel to the anti-gay fire? Perhaps it’s best to just leave this issue alone, and those who want to believe that Bert and Ernie are gay can do so without enraging the anti-gay faction. And really, aren’t there more important issues to worry about than two puppets getting married?

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Nature red in tooth and claw

My son likes nature programs. We don’t have a television, but he takes advantage of other people’s and there are DVDs. Lately I’ve been exposed to some of this, and the kind of story telling that goes on around presenting natural history. I’m increasingly uneasy about it.

Nature programs, aimed at human audiences, concentrate on drama and focus on things we can easily identify with – the 3 Fs. Feeding, Fighting and Reproduction. You get a great deal of who eats whom, and the fighting tends to go with that, or around territories and reproduction. Nature red in tooth and claw – dramatic, violent, non-stop action.

There will be a lot of people for whom television is the only insight into nature. These programs create impressions of the wildness, aggression and breeding-orientated state of wild things. All very ‘animalistic’ – no subtlety, no culture… this is story telling that reinforces our sense of distance and difference from the natural world.

I’ve also spent time recently bird watching. Sit for an hour or two watching geese, swans, ducks etc on a large lake and the odds are nothing will die. There will be no big fight. There may be scuffles, displays and interactions of all sorts. There may be partner seeking and behaviour that reinforces group connections. There is the sheer beauty of the birds themselves, they way they move, their calls, the details of their lives.

I can’t imagine anyone would spend an hour watching a program that was just birds paddling around on a lake. But it’s beautiful to watch, and it gives a wholly different sense of nature. I’ve watched foxes and badgers out and about. I’ve watched wild birds in my garden, rabbits and hares in the fields. I’ve been whale watching, seen seals, deer – all manner of wild things. There have been only a few occasions when I’ve come close to seeing the 3Fs in action.

The stories TV programs tell about nature are fast paced, bloody action movies. They are emotive as well, encouraging us to feel sorry for certain creatures, empathise with the hunter this time, the prey another. But in the same way that 18 rated films are not representative of most people’s lives, so these nature programs don’t tell us anything about what most other living things actually experience. With 18 films it’s less of a problem because we have other points of reference. But for people who only see nature on the telly, it must be creating some perception issues.

If we saw the rest of nature as being far more like us, would we, as a species, relate to it differently?