my main Druidism blog on the trendiness of being Pagan
I didn’t think I would be blogging here at The Pagan and Pen. But when Myspace began labeling all my press links as phishing sites put up by a spammer, it made me realize I had to get wordy someplace else. I have signed up here at WordPress and bit by bit am moving in.
The link above is a repost of the British press coverage of a proud Morris Dance company that recently performed at a museum benefit for celebrities. Hunter’s Moon Morris and Black Pig Border Morris are favorites of mine over there. If you go to my blog it has lots of working links to them.
Lately I have been ministering to a nonhuman member of my grove who is a paraplegic. It gets me thinking to wipe butt for somebody who can’t. I would only do such a thing out of love.
So many are coming to Paganism, socalled, because of dissatisfaction with the religion in which they were raised. ‘An it harm none, do as thou wilt’ is the wellknown Wiccan creed. Our Druidism is even vaguer–”Nature is good”. The scope for amorality could be tempting, for Nature is red in tooth and claw. Nature has a place for famine, pestilence, and decay.
I know many Pagan authors who write horror. I have even edited some. But myself, I have chosen the vehicle of erotic romance. I don’t want to focus on the gummy underside of the great cycle. There’s quite enough gummy underside in my life, thanks very much, and as I struggle with chronic depression day to day, I do not have a pressing appetite for more of it.
No, I am more concerned with why I should take my next breath when the world is so full of a number of things that would be happier dead, and maybe I could be one of them. Dead is so peaceful, and when you are weary it is inviting.
I gave my paraplegic little friend a butt bath and a good spray of salve and pain medicine and a long cool drink and a good breakfast. I sent healing into her withering feet. The rest is up to her and the spirit inside the body.
I have had fellow pagan authors who have told me, Love does not make everything all right. I refuse to believe it. Without love and the beauty it brings, nothing has a reason to continue. That is why I support Happily Ever After or as it is often called in the romance business, HEA. The more the better, in as many situations as I can shoehorn it into a story. Gay, straight, BDSM, filthy, lacy, sugary, smelly, you can make them all worthwhile, humane, when you add the love.
Take the love away and the most luxurious pampering can be torture. If I were not there to clean my little parishioner’s hindquarters for her, she would not still be living. If even that begins to hurt, she’ll let me know. Then it will be weeping time.
Do I minister in every way I can, having taken up the metaphorical mantle of ministry in RDNA? Yes. And it involves love for those to whom one is called. Ministry in any religion is a deeper level of personal commitment than mere adherence to stated principles. Pagan paths may have fewer principles, but just as in other faiths, by their fruits ye shall know them. Each being exhibits a moral compass, and not all Pagans will be good people, or spirits.
As there are more people using the term Pagan to describe themselves, more care will have to be taken to see how humane– how much of a human being– each one is. That includes their published words.
Our writings are weapons of change and seeds of forests.
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Love doesn’t make everything all right. There are a few things it can’t fix at all (usually things involving money). There are some things where it only helps and other work has to be done to make things all right.
That said, love almost always helps. On a relationship level, it is important.
And I’ve been thinking about the idea of words and stories as worldbuilding, projection and weapons of change. I’ll be blogging on that.
You are my hero Angel and it’s true that love does not make everything all right Immediately. That still takes common sense and human decency. It’s in the long run that I must believe it makes the difference. Otherwise it would be so easy not to bother.
Beautifully said, helgaleena.
It was in search of compassion and love that I discovered paganism. The writings I read by pagans made me see the truth of nature and of humanity itself.
Yes, there is darkness out there, but in the end it is love that lights our way and saves us.
Wonderful closing
Now, I’m going to check out your other site.
I don’t think love makes everything alright either. No more than I believe you can lead a horse to water AND CAN make him drink. I know that’s backwards but it suits my point.
And then you have people who are undeserving of love and where you have them, you will find a past history of people thinking, their love can change or save them.
WHoah– they may be undeserving of a lot of things, but love? Not if they are still people. That is one question– have they lost their humanity or not? Is the most loving thing to shun or eliminate them, like wood ticks? My ex husband’s Native American way of putting it was, that there are far too many beings walking around who look like human beings and are not– whether they were born human or are pretenders. Many Native nations have names for themselves which translate as ‘the human beings’– that is why.
The other question is, how much to love and how to express love in the most useful way to a being. Take ghosts. I find it helps them most to be told they have options besides being ghosts.
I hope you love those who appreciate your love freely, in any case. It magnifies when you do that, into lots more love. Like yogurt!
I’m all for loving those who return and do not abuse it. As far as those who I think are undeserving–everyone has to define that one for themselves. Personally if someone is constantly draining me and mine or using us, bringing us harm, then nope, I cut em off. If they ‘deserve’ love after that…then it’s someone else’ task to give it.
As I read the replies here and the comments on love, I thought I’d throw in my two cents…
Love is not a noun, it is a verb.
Love is not a thing (noun) that you feel. Love is what you do (verb).
You feel emotions-happy, sad, frustration, lust…
But love isn’t one of them. When you reduce love to a mere emotion, then you have not only robbed yourself of one of the greatest pleasures on earth, but you have also robbed someone else of experiencing your love.
Saying I love you is nice. It’s also nice to hear. But without actions to show what “I love you” means, it’s just words.
Love is what you do every day, day in and day out, the tedious, mundane, and boring, as well as the joyful, fun and amusing. It’s the cleaning up after, the hard work, the missing out on things because you have to do something else for the object of your love whether it be a person or animal.
So if you want to know if someone loves you, don’t listen to their words, look at their actions. More importantly, look at your own and ask yourself if your actions declare love or is your love only a noun.
Love is a verb. The most important one.
Rie McGaha…fantasy that keeps you up
This makes me wonder, Rie– why bother then with words in stories?
And i answer my own wondering– perhaps it is not the story (noun) but the writing and reading (verbs) ?